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Having lived in Florida my whole life, I can honestly say that I'm comfortable with myself enough to wear a bikini on the daily. Sadly, having "Social Media" for only 6 months has made me second guess myself. This was the easiest picture I ever took because I did not care about my face, stomach or legs. I still thought, "Maybe I should take another photo because my hands look weird." You probably just looked and thought, "Ya, they do." It's okay because it's what is on the inside that counts. I can only imagine how other women are feeling. If you ever feel insecure- just know that I do too, you are not alone and it is not your fault. Society is making many people feel like looks are what matters; especially in media, movies and magazines. Appearances are just appearances. We should be supporting good people and good companies regardless. We have to remember that imperfection is beauty and how we live is what matters. The true way to feel self-confident is to be real and kind. Only then can women be happy enough with themselves to not care what they look like in a bathing suit. The Fox bikini in this picture may not be my "prettiest" swimwear but it shows a glimpse of my personality. Post pictures of you in your bathing suit without care and remember that you are beautiful in your own way.  I just wish more people would stop caring so much about looks and be pretty on the inside. Do you agree? Share with others or simply leave a message on this site.


  1. Absolutely agree with the article! Society should not make people uncomfortable simply because on how they look like. Regardless, people need to do their best to stay healthy, look good and be happy.

    1. Thank you for comment Mario! I totally agree. :) Have a great day!


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